Doing therapy is all about “going meta,” which basically means taking a one-level-up perspective. In my couples and family therapy program that usually means talking or thinking about the process couples or families are involved in (are they, for example, acting out a pursuer-distancer pattern?) versus the content of their conversations (the specific complaints, “He never takes out the trash,” “She’s always on my back,” etc). Talking about talking is “meta-talking.” Thinking about thinking is “meta-thinking.” This is an idea I had during a lecture:
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December 15, 2009 at 12:12 pm
love it!
January 14, 2010 at 9:57 pm
Ha ha, there’s one for the bulletin board!