I’m reading Whitaker and Malone’s 1951 book The Roots of Psychotherapy, an early attempt at a general theory of therapy. Whitaker was a psychiatrist who started working with families in the very early days of the family therapy field. It’s a good book, though not an easy read.
My favorite of his ideas so far is that of the social therapist. He says that since everyone has troubles, and everyone has some capacity to help others through troubles, everyone is a potential “patient” (therapists still called their clients “patients” back then), everyone is a potential “social therapist,” and every interaction between people has the potential to be therapeutic.
What causes a potential “patient” to become an actual “patient,” and go ask a professional therapist for help is a failure of that person’s social-therapy community to help with their troubles. That, and the “patient’s” overcoming their own fear of change and their fear of the stigma our culture places on getting therapy.
Whitaker also tackles the sticky question, “What is a cured patient?” and concludes, “In short, the patient gets access to other human beings and, incidentally, enters the community as an adequate social therapist, no longer so concerned with himself that he cannot get and give therapy to others in a social setting.” (p. 79)
October 31, 2010 at 8:17 am
Wow! I like that!
October 31, 2010 at 8:59 pm
This rings very happily to me: the distinction between ‘professional help’ and the things we do as human beings seems just that: helping people get back into the social system in a healthy way so that things can become self-maintaining again.
November 1, 2010 at 12:17 am
Yes, for me too.
Nathen
November 1, 2010 at 9:20 am
Amen to that. It’s amazing how the things we seek in therapy are often available in our every day lives if we let them in or seek them out. Validation and active listening are the two things that come to mind for myself, and I actually have had more luck finding those things outside of therapy.